When the pandemic limited the chance to find love in person, online dating became an even more attractive option. But as the popularity of connecting through apps and websites blossomed, so did the chance for people to fall victim to romance scams.
Over the past five years, romance frauds have grown more common — and more costly. The Federal Trade Commission found that Americans lost a record $547 million to tricksters posing as lovers in 2021, an increase of almost 80% from 2020. Victims lost on average tens of thousands of dollars.
Using data from the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center, Forbes Advisor determined which American states had the most romance scam victims from 2017 to 2021. Overall, 86,422 Americans fell victim to fake love schemes over the last five years, with a total financial loss of more than $2.3 billion. And that’s just the cases that were reported.
Kashif Ahmed, the founder and president of American Private Wealth, said that a common indicator of a romance swindle is requests for money as scammers play on victims’ emotions. Conversations between fraudsters and their victims are “almost always about money,” he said.
What advisors can do
Ahmed believes that financial advisors should get involved if it appears that their clients’ romantic interests are being taken advantage of.
“There’s advisors, and then there’s an advisor who’s totally on your side,” Ahmed said. “I think your job as their advisor is to be intimately…
